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THE SEVEN MOST DIFFICULT ASPECTS OF A FATHER AND SON RELATIONSHIP (PART ONE) – Bishop Irabor Wisdom

THE SEVEN MOST DIFFICULT ASPECTS OF A FATHER AND SON RELATIONSHIP (PART ONE) – Bishop Irabor Wisdom

The FATHER and SON relationship is a BLESSING, if only you UNDERSTAND the RULES of ENGAGEMENT.

Before you CALL ANYONE your FATHER, please check your ABILITY to MANAGE these SEVEN DIFFICULT AREAS.

SONS who are not MATURED will always have PROBLEMS in these areas of ENGAGEMENTS.

  1. WHEN YOU SEE YOUR GENUINE FATHER RELATING WITH THE SAME PERSON YOU AVOIDED BECAUSE YOU KNOW HE IS VERY FAKE AND ‘DIRTY’:

You are the one that sees that person as being fake.

YOUR FATHER is more matured than you, he knows HIMSELF is WEAK IN ONE AREA OF LIFE.

You are also weak in your own area of weakness.

And that person is also weak in his own way.

The only problem with that person you call fake is that, he relates with so many people in the same way.

There are things you don’t do with more than 2 or 3 people in this life.

When COVENANT BROTHERS become TOO MANY, IT WILL BECOME COVENANT BREAKERS.

Most PEOPLE STEAL, but it is THE ONE that is CAUGHT that is called a THIEF.

But when you are GENUINE and you are VERY CONVINCED that this PERSON IS FAKE and NOT JUST WEAK, and the FATHER YOU SEE AS GENUINE is now INVITING HIM or PREACHING for him, it becomes a CHALLENGE to MANAGE.

If YOU ARE NOT MATURED in HANDLING this issue, YOU WILL BE OFFENDED.

But please understand, there is a WORLD of difference between FAKENESS and WEAKNESS.

Every PASTOR on EARTH is WEAK in ONE AREA OF LIFE.

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But not ALL PASTORS are FAKE.

I can relate with a WEAK PASTOR, Because I am also WEAK.

But I can’t relate with a FAKE.

You can still spend a WEAK NAIRA NOTE, that was MISTAKENLY THROWN into your REFUSE BIN for DAYS, WEEKS, MONTHS and YEARS.

But you can’t SPEND A FAKE ONE, you can be CAUGHT and ARRESTED.

If you CHECK NIGERIAN PREACHERS very well, ALL GENUINE PASTORS ARE CONNECTED DIRECTLY or INDIRECTLY to SOMEONE you think is FAKE.

For example:

PASTOR 1 is GENUINE, so he doesn’t relate with PASTOR 2 that he CALLS FAKE, but relates very well with PASTOR 3 that is the FRIEND of PASTOR 2 that is FAKE, according to PASTOR 1.

Then PASTORS 4, 5 and 6 you call FALSE PROPHETS, are the TRUE SONS of PASTOR 1 THAT is very GENUINE.

You can see the CONNECTION and the CONFUSION.

What will you do, if your Father hosts the very Person you consider to be FAKE? Will you ATTEND the MEETING or AVOID the MEETING?

Will you also DISCONNECT from your FATHER because of that?

That is why I tell people submission is by CONVICTION AND NOT BY EXPECTATION.

Expectations will not always be met.

  1. WHEN BY THE INSTRUCTION OR BODY LANGUAGE OF YOUR FATHER, YOU COMPLETELY CUT OFF FROM A BROTHER THAT HAD ISSUES WITH YOUR FATHER, AS A MARK OF RESPECT AND HONOUR FOR YOUR FATHER, ONLY TO WAKE UP ONE DAY TO SEE YOUR FATHER AND HIS PRODIGAL SON RELATING AGAIN:

This issue is very serious.

Do you know THE ELDER BROTHER of the PRODIGAL SON DID NOT LOOK FOR HIS YOUNGER BROTHER, as a mark of ALLEGIANCE to his FATHER?.

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The same FATHER who ACCEPTED the PRODIGAL SON without first discussing with his ELDER SON.

This matter can TEAR A FAMILY APART because MOST PRODIGAL SONS will come in and don’t want to relate with those who joined their FATHER TO AVOID HIM.

My Advice to Fathers:
When people join you to avoid a Son that is DIS-HONOURING you or fighting you, NEVER MAKE PEACE behind them, it will INJURE INNOCENT HEARTS.

In our Ministry, we have some of our Pastors who left, spoke against me and the Church, that has RECONNECTED BACK WITH ME.

The moment it is obvious I want to start relating with them publicly, they MUST COME TO THE CHURCH AND PUBLICLY RECONNECT WITH EVERYONE who joined me in AVOIDING THEM, otherwise, I can’t lose people who stood with me because someone who left is trying to return.

The Father of the PRODIGAL SON took TIME TO EXPLAIN to the ELDEST SON, what was happening.

He did not rebuke him for GETTING ANGRY.

His reason for being ANGRY WAS NOT OUT OF PLACE, but that is what happens when you join FATHERS TO AVOID SONS.

And to the ELDER BROTHERS OF THE HOUSE, ALWAYS KNOW THAT ONE DAY, the PRODIGAL SON must COME BACK HOME.

Be VERY WISE in MANAGING THE SITUATION.

There are Fathers in NIGERIA WHO DON’T RELATE because of this matter.

You can trace the reason for their not relating well, to this issue.

And TO YOU WHO CAME BACK, what do you EXPECT SONS TO DO? To join you in FIGHTING AND DIS-HONOURING YOUR FATHER?

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IF YOU WERE IN THEIR SHOES YOU WILL ALSO AVOID THEM.

  1. WHEN YOU BELIEVE GOD HATES DIVORCE AND YOU HAVE ALSO PREACHED AGAINST IT, ONLY TO WAKE UP AND DISCOVER YOUR SPIRITUAL FATHER HAS GONE THROUGH A DIVORCE:

Not EVERY SON can SURVIVE THIS PHASE.

Pray it doesn’t happen to your FATHER, if you are a person WHO HAVE VALUE for ONE MARRIAGE.

I know a PASTOR WHO DIVORCED and most of his SONS LEFT, that a DIVORCEE CANNOT BE THEIR FATHER.

They are not GENUINE SONS.

To a GENUINE SON, it was NOT MARRIAGE I SUBMITTED to but to a MANTLE.

Those WHO DISCONNECTED are not WRONG, and those WHO STAYED ARE NOT also WRONG.

It is always a difficult moment for ALL SONS when their FATHER goes through A DIVORCE.

SOME WOMEN will never stay in that church again.

To them, ‘I don’t want my HUSBAND TO BE INFLUENCED WRONGLY’.

SONS WHO CAN SURVIVE this difficult moment, are the REAL SONS.

Thanks for reading.

Irabor Wisdom

Presiding Bishop
Answers Assembly Warri Delta State Nigeria.

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