Ladies if you’re looking for a perfect man, you have no ministry in the life of that man. The purpose of a Lady is to complete the man, to help his inadequacy. So if you’re looking for a man who is already perfect, then you don’t have a ministry in his life.
QUALITIES TO LOOK OUT FOR IN A MAN
-HONESTY & SINCERITY
Any guy coming around your life who is not honest and sincere, pack your load and run. Don’t pray about it! I’m already telling you the answer, run! A dishonest brother will produce a dishonest husband, a dishonest father, a dishonest leader and will distroy you. Many of you ladies like guys lieing to you, you have itchy ears!
-HE MUST BE TEACHABLE
Teachability is the willingness to learn and accept when you’re wrong. Any brother that is not teachable is going to drown you. You’ll follow him together and enter an ocean of trouble. Brothers be teachable! it is not a sign of weakness, it’s a sign of great stregth. These ladies may look like they don’t know anything, but i tell you; if you’re humble to listen, you can learn alot of things.
-VISIONARY & RESPONSIBLE
There are many guys you’ve have not yet finished managing yourself, don’t add a woman into it. There are many guys you’ve not lead yourself, you don’t have self-management, you’re careless, indicipline and now you want to bring a lady and add her into your predicament. You must be Visionary! Never follow any guy you don’t know where he is taking you. He must be responsible. Every lady needs a man that she can be secured around, a man that can protect her.
Guys if you want a glamorous lady, you must start working on yourself as son as possible. There are many brothers; you don’t cumb your hair, its dry season but you’ll still see at the back of your shoe the mud of raining season. You wear one singlet for two months, you can’t buy perfume of 500naira, your clothes are always rumpled.
Be smart! if it’s palms(sandals) you have, polish it! Wear it honorably. I tell you something i discoverd with ladies, they’re not as materialistic as we think. There’re some ladies that love God and are willing to start and go with you only if you will be honest.
Speaker: Apst. Joshua Selman
Excerpt Source: Understanding Relationship
Source: Ndepo TV