Be The Needed
In this letter, I will be sharing my thoughts with you on what makes people shift from the needy position to becoming the needed.
Two things differentiate the needy from the needed , it is the way they see and and react to problems.
One thing I want you to know is that the issue is not the problem you are facing , what you do with the problem is what makes it either a problem or an opportunity.
The needy sees problems as a huge mountain that have come to oppress them and as a result only complain without thinking of the way out.
The needed on the other hand sees problem as an opportunity to become smarter and as a result look into possible ways of finding an ending solution which eventually make other people with similar problem sought after them.
This exceptional paradigm to difficulties is the first and major step to being a person of value.
However, it is not just enough to proffer solution to problems , because other people may be solving the same problems but how exceptional and unique you are in solving that problem is what makes you stand out.
To achieve this , two essential things must be put in place : mastery and competence.
Mastery is the phenomenon that defines how well you have understood the problem and methods of solving it, which means you may be solving the same problem others are solving but you engage the fastest and best method to solving it. Absolute dilligence is the quality that makes this happen.
While competence explains how well you deliver the value you offer. Its one thing to offer value, its another thing to be excellent at delivering it.
Never forget this:
The needed are those who are almost irreplaceable at doing what they do.
If everybody can offer the same value you offer at the same level of competence , then your demand rate will be low.
In summary, the rate at which people will demand for your value is directly proportional to your problem solving ability, mastery and competence at delivering that value.
My dear friend, to see you rise like an edifice is my utmost desire, that is why I pour my heart to you expressly in each letter I send, ensure you make good use of each thoughts I share with you each time and dont hesitate to reach out to me for extensive discussion.
I love you and hope to see you soon.
Where no oxen are, the crib is clean: but much increase is by the strength of the ox. Pr. 14:4